Body Blog Post #3
I proceeded with the body practice of wearing dresses with the clarification. The feel-good vibes from the first week is partially gone. In wearing skirts or dresses, I feel increasingly inconvenient. I am always conscious about keeping my thighs together to avoid a “wardrobe malfunction” and unwanted peeking at my private parts. In addition, dresses are not as comfortable as I thought they would be. Over the two week period, I felt chafing over my thighs, and I have to significantly slow down my walking speed which is very inconvenient for a person who has a large stride. I began to have some questions in mind, such as how could people equate gracefulness with slow and steadiness? I just don’t have that much time to be pretty with more important tasks in mind! If we put this scenario into context, I think certain gender stereotypes can deprive bodily freedom of woman (and men of course). People should not be expected to behave in certain ways to befit a type of gendered aesthetic...